feat(runner): Container detection and handling, video bit-depth flags and script updates (#303)

## Description

Works in apptainer now.. podman is still the goat since apptainer needs
docker treatment and even more..

- Added container detection so podman can be used to it's fullest, the
non-sane ones are handled separately..
- Added video bit-depth option, cuz AV1 and 10-bit encoding go well
together.
- Some other package updates to nestri-server.
- General tidying up of scripts to make multi-container-engine handling
less of a pain.
- Updated old wireplumber lua script to new json format.

Further changes:

- Removed unused debug arg from nestri-server.
- Moved configs to config file folder rather than keeping them in
containerfile.
- Improved audio configs, moved some into wireplumber to keep things
tidy.
- Bit better arg handling in nestri-server.

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

* **New Features**
* Optional 10‑bit video support and auto‑launch of an app after display
setup.

* **Changes**
* Standardized runtime/user env to NESTRI_* with updated home/cache
paths and explicit LANG; password generation now logged.
* Improved container/GPU detection and startup logging; reduced blanket
root usage during startup; SSH setup surfaced.
* WirePlumber/PipeWire moved to JSON configs; low‑latency clock and
loopback audio policies added; audio capture defaults to PipeWire.
  
* **Chores**
* GStreamer/libp2p dependency upgrades and Rust toolchain pinned; NVIDIA
driver capability exposed.
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Co-authored-by: DatCaptainHorse <DatCaptainHorse@users.noreply.github.com>

packages/server/Cargo.toml

@@ -8,9 +8,9 @@ name = "nestri-server"
 path = "src/main.rs"
 
 [dependencies]
-gstreamer = { version = "0.23", features = ["v1_26"] }
-gstreamer-webrtc = { version = "0.23", features = ["v1_26"] }
-gst-plugin-webrtc = { version = "0.13", features = ["v1_22"] }
+gstreamer = { version = "0.24", features = ["v1_26"] }
+gstreamer-webrtc = { version = "0.24", features = ["v1_26"] }
+gst-plugin-webrtc = { version = "0.14" }
 serde = {version = "1.0", features = ["derive"] }
 tokio = { version = "1.45", features = ["full"] }
 tokio-stream = { version = "0.1", features = ["full"] }
@@ -28,6 +28,14 @@ prost-types = "0.14"
 parking_lot = "0.12"
 atomic_refcell = "0.1"
 byteorder = "1.5"
-libp2p = { version = "0.55", features = ["identify", "dns", "tcp", "noise", "ping", "tokio", "serde", "yamux", "macros", "websocket", "autonat"] }
-libp2p-stream = { version = "0.3.0-alpha" }
+libp2p = { version = "0.56", features = ["identify", "dns", "tcp", "noise", "ping", "tokio", "serde", "yamux", "macros", "websocket", "autonat"] }
+libp2p-identify = "0.47"
+libp2p-ping = "0.47"
+libp2p-autonat = { version = "0.15", features = ["v2"] }
+libp2p-stream = "0.4.0-alpha"
+libp2p-yamux = "0.47"
+libp2p-noise = "0.46"
+libp2p-dns = { version = "0.44", features = ["tokio"] }
+libp2p-tcp = { version = "0.44", features = ["tokio"] }
+libp2p-websocket = "0.45"
 dashmap = "6.1"