feat(runner): Container detection and handling, video bit-depth flags and script updates (#303)

## Description

Works in apptainer now.. podman is still the goat since apptainer needs
docker treatment and even more..

- Added container detection so podman can be used to it's fullest, the
non-sane ones are handled separately..
- Added video bit-depth option, cuz AV1 and 10-bit encoding go well
together.
- Some other package updates to nestri-server.
- General tidying up of scripts to make multi-container-engine handling
less of a pain.
- Updated old wireplumber lua script to new json format.

Further changes:

- Removed unused debug arg from nestri-server.
- Moved configs to config file folder rather than keeping them in
containerfile.
- Improved audio configs, moved some into wireplumber to keep things
tidy.
- Bit better arg handling in nestri-server.

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

* **New Features**
* Optional 10‑bit video support and auto‑launch of an app after display
setup.

* **Changes**
* Standardized runtime/user env to NESTRI_* with updated home/cache
paths and explicit LANG; password generation now logged.
* Improved container/GPU detection and startup logging; reduced blanket
root usage during startup; SSH setup surfaced.
* WirePlumber/PipeWire moved to JSON configs; low‑latency clock and
loopback audio policies added; audio capture defaults to PipeWire.
  
* **Chores**
* GStreamer/libp2p dependency upgrades and Rust toolchain pinned; NVIDIA
driver capability exposed.
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Co-authored-by: DatCaptainHorse <DatCaptainHorse@users.noreply.github.com>

packages/server/src/nestrisink/imp.rs

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ use atomic_refcell::AtomicRefCell;
 use glib::subclass::prelude::*;
 use gstreamer::glib;
 use gstreamer::prelude::*;
-use gstreamer_webrtc::{gst_sdp, WebRTCSDPType, WebRTCSessionDescription};
+use gstreamer_webrtc::{WebRTCSDPType, WebRTCSessionDescription, gst_sdp};
 use gstrswebrtc::signaller::{Signallable, SignallableImpl};
 use parking_lot::RwLock as PLRwLock;
 use prost::Message;