🐜 fix(db): Fix database state issues (#203)

## Description
This attempts to fix all database issues for all teammates

## Related Issues
1. Getting funny errors while trying to run `sst dev`
2. The neon pulumi stuff trying to create a db each time on push

## Type of Change

- [x] Bug fix (non-breaking change)
- [ ] New feature (non-breaking change)
- [ ] Breaking change (fix or feature that changes existing
functionality)
- [ ] Documentation update
- [ ] Other (please describe):

## Checklist

- [ ] I have updated relevant documentation
- [ ] My code follows the project's coding style
- [x] My changes generate no new warnings/errors

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packages/core/src/drizzle/index.ts

@@ -7,7 +7,15 @@ import { Pool, neonConfig } from "@neondatabase/serverless";
 
 neonConfig.webSocketConstructor = ws;
 
-const client = new Pool({ connectionString: `postgres://${Resource.Database.user}:${Resource.Database.password}@${Resource.Database.host}/${Resource.Database.name}?sslmode=require` })
+function addPoolerSuffix(original: string): string {
+    const firstDotIndex = original.indexOf('.');
+    if (firstDotIndex === -1) return original + '-pooler';
+    return original.slice(0, firstDotIndex) + '-pooler' + original.slice(firstDotIndex);
+  }
+
+const dbHost = addPoolerSuffix(Resource.Database.host)
+
+const client = new Pool({ connectionString: `postgres://${Resource.Database.user}:${Resource.Database.password}@${dbHost}/${Resource.Database.name}?sslmode=require` })
 
 export const db = neonDrizzle(client, {
     logger: